Sunday, May 16, 2010

Thank you my friend

I believe life is about being satisfied with the way you live your life,and what you give and what you get from it.After all everything in life is all about Give and Take.Most of the times we are so busy in our superfast lives that we dont get the time to stop and think over where we are heading to.If I talk about my life I guess 30 years or to be precise 29 years were well lived.I've put in lots and lots of effort and god gave me lots of lots of good things which included good job,few good friends who really cared about me,good travelling around the globe and ofcourse a good husband.Not that I did not have my share of low periods or heartbreaks or fights.All of them I had major shares but then they say alls well that ends well and if you emerge a winner it doesn't really bother what has gone into the making.True!!!
                                                                    For almost last one year I have not been happy with my life.Its been full of uncertainties. It seemed as if god is taking one of the major exams of my life.Life went topsy turvy in all the aspects be it career,be it health,be it peace of mind and the worst part was I had no control on any of them.Thinking about this something came in my mind,while we were doing our engineeering we used to give compartment exam in next semester if failed in one of the subjects in the previous semester.I can feel that I have simultaneously given compartment exam for so many subjects in the same semester.Anyways I know after a long dark night comes a very bright day .So I am sure this would end and a new life will begin which would again bring lots of happiness and peace.(My list which used to be happiness,peace and success and necessarily in this order has shortened now to happiness and peace.The reason maybe the wisdom to know that latter is a superset of the former)But times like these make so many people so closer to you and so many people so distant from you.There are some people who at this time would try to sympathise with you and would confuse you more with their little chit chats and you end up thinking and worrying more.On the contrary there are some who make you believe that you would definitely come out of it and they show you how in the past you have come out of such difficult situations,they would make you remember all the hard times you have seen and how you came out of them emerging as a winner .They make you belive in god and in yourself.I am really thankful to one such friend of mine who is very close to my heart and has always become closer in times like these.This blog I have dedicated to that friend.Thankyou my friend...